Monday, November 12, 2012

Confirmation via Text of what i already knew

So out of nowhere on a Saturday this weekend i get a text to my phone.  It is from a number that is linked to one of those simple "free text" apps for apple.
The number was 615 338-7195
I dont understand why this woman is making this contact with me.  I am thankful for it because I have obvious, in black and white, proof that she is threatened by my presence, even if it be only on the Internet.  Why is she seeking me out, pretending to be my daughter?  What is she trying to accomplish?  Here is the text conversation, you tell me how guilty of insanity is this woman?'

Aloura Impersonator
-Mom? Hurry answer me
Hello
-I only have a couple minutes
Guess you dont really care

Me
Who is this
-Hello

Aloura Impersonator
-Goose Mom

Me
What?
-Girl?

Aloura Impersonator
-I am using Aarons Ipad

Me
Who is Aaron, Oh my God
-I thought it was you on flickr, wait what is your friends name from the hospital that u told to find me on FB
How did you find my number?

(Right Here she screws up so easy. Addy? stay tuned)

Aloura Impersonator
-Addy
I am using Aarons Ipad
-Or suzi, which one?

Me
There you go, thank god

Aloura Impersonator
-U sent me ur # then u dont rememeber?

Me
Its u? Im scared. I totallydivulged all my stuff to you on Flickr. But, it wasnt you. Ya of course i remember but i didnt think you got it.
-Wait, all this stuff is stuff Sami could have known bc of the stuff i sen ton FLickr.
How do i know its you

Aloura Impersonator
Well, i will text you later when everyone is in bed i dont want to get caught

Me
-What theme was ur first birthday party? And What theme was the last birthday we spent together....Answer me then
-If its yo. I love you and im dying without you
-This so is NOT Aloura, YOUR fucking crazy
-What r u trying to fucking prove? That your crazy!!! All your doing is giving me more proof that your a fucking child stealer! May God have judgement on you first theif.
-The good always prevails psycho and you will lose extremly.
-Keep it up.  FUel for my fire that will burn you to the ground.
-☛☛ADDY IS SHORT FOR ADDRESS IDIOT☚☚
(now read my post regarding the correspondence we had on flickr.  Addy is what i wrote to abbreviate Address)
-It sucks to be you
-My daughter will make it her life mission to stop the sicknees of cps and people like you that make money off of kids
-She will hate you the second she gets the real story.  Ur a sick demon and god only knows how you go to sleep at night.
U do a bad job of portraying a 14 year old.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Fake Foster Parent is inpersonating my girl all over the place~

Conversation between me and Sami Pretending to be Aloura on Flickr.
She sent me a message via my FLickr account from a profile that was created to impersonate ALoura.
"Is this woman digging her own grave or what?"
I CANT BELIEVE IM FREAKING LIVING THIS PEOPLE. 


From:
 Aloraboo Alora Bemis

☹☹Please reply.I just need to talk to you.Please reply soon!


MY REPLIES♥
are you there? Baby?


Your name is spelled with a U? Aloura? Sami changed the spelling to throw me off.
ok so, you had to write me here for a reason? Was this the only way you could get a message to me? I had been writing an email addy (READ TEXT POST TO SEE HOW THIS LITTLE WORD BUSTED THE NUTJOB) your friend suzi had given me on yahoo. She found me on facebook. Your name is all over the place. EVerything i put online i tag you. SO when you searched one day, you'd find me easy :)

dont risk calling if it in any way can be tracked to me. Down the line, if, she finds out you found me. We do not want her to know anything until your far away from there.
I love you baby girl. Can you use a computer at a library away from school? She is psycho and will go to any length to control all possible connections you have made with me.
Just be careful, im sure you are aware but now that i am in your reach, we cant lose it.

Last Reply:♥
one more thing

well actually i have like 1000 and a half more things to talk to you about. But, in time.
For now, i have added you on my yahoo messenger on all 3 of my yahoo accounts. fabricforcraft, amberingz, and ambercstanley. Only accept the one that wont draw suspicion, just in case. I have also requested messenger contact to both the alorabemis and aapvm2016@yahoo.com
So OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND IT IS ALL GOING TO BE OK GOOSE.


From:
 Aloraboo Alora Bemis

☹i miss you,but i have to stay with my mom now.I will try to get contact as soon as i turn 18 because there is no possible way of going with you.


MY REPLY♥
Aloura, really? I dont think this is aloura at all.....


From:
 Aloraboo Alora Bemis 

☹I sware its me im at school it is me i promise



MY REPLY♥
your so not my daughter.


From:
 Aloraboo Alora Bemis

☹it is me i wasnt sure if she found this so i waited to reply... might have access tomorrow do you have pictures of Abra? rite me back


MY REPLY♥
your digging a deeper hole for yourself. quit lying.


Saturday, August 4, 2012

A heavy thought

A blog post written on June 4th 2007 

 My Justice was 6 months old and looking back this was my initial, level headed grasp AT making sense of the life I now faced. With this beautiful baby laying on my chest, i began accepting my reality.  The reality that the past 4 years had been spent in a lifeless state of shock and every moment after will be spent fighting.

"This time of the year.

Today Aloura turns nine.  Like any other day I replay the past 4 years over and over again through my head. It makes me wonder if my "obsession" over the order of events will ever subside.  Four years it's been, since they have not been with their mommy.  Some days are easier than others.  Abra turned 6 on April 29th.  Mother's day, their birthdays, it's this time of year when my strength is most tested. The pain inside hurts a bit worse and my outside layer is definitely being affected.  Last week I had to answer a lot of "are you O.K.'s?".    I resist writing because it brings tears.  "Deal with the tears Amber"  When the day comes that puts them in my arms again, the words written will be the proof that I was here wanting, loving and missing them every passing day. It will be proof that although I am strong and living.  A piece of my heart lives inside of them, wherever that that may be. 

       How I survived with this pain without Justice leaves me completely bewildered.  When I look at the photos, when I call Michael and again he doesn't pick up, when I simply realize that there is nothing I can do. It's out of my control.  I'm powerless.  I look at her, touch her, hold her and it saves me. 


            I just pray, pray that before they have to come find me themselves, someone helps me find them, helps me find Justice. 
            Happy birthday Aloura Ivy…………"

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Letter from a obvious threatened foster parent

This letter was written to me on facebook.  Sami has an older daughter that was 7 at the time.  I reached out to her first, not knowing where she stood but very much aware that Sami was monitoring Alyssas account.  Well, i got a response back from Sami, not her daughter.  This woman is frightened, and obviously at a loss at how she will continue her charades. How will she hide Aloura from the truth once she is free to find me and the fight i have been engulfed in since the day i was without her.  How can Sami cover up what is all around her?  She cant, but, she thinks she somehow has to.
All the while knowing very well that a teenager would be incapable of writing such a hostile letter.  It was Sami posing as her daughter.

"dont you ever dare try to contact me or my family ever again. youve done enough damage and its in your best interest to leave my mom and her family including Alora out of your life. I swear on m life that Alora will never see you again. I dont care what your blog has to say we all know the truth Amber and you will never understand the damage you caused not only Alora but me and my mom because of your mistakes. My mom has done everything she can to give Alora a better life then you could ever give her and we are trying to help her get better. We all know she isnt crazy she just needs counseling because of the hell YOU put her through. And trying to seek information out of Christina yes i know your talking to Christina because im friends with Lexy and im not an idiot but thats pathetic honestly you have your life Amber you made your choices and you are going to suffer the consequences for the rest of your life. I dont ever in my life want to hear that you reached out to Alora she is my sister and i will protect her no matter what and you fucked shit up in her life. I never liked you I always had bad feeling about you. And if you have a problem with anything I said i dont care you mean nothing to me. you are nothing i cant believe you let your daughter be molested at such a young age because you were on drugs and stripping. My mom is THE only real mom Alora will ever know. Alora is traumatized by what you didnt do for her and your neglect to grow up and be a mom to not only her but Abra. Again Alora was taken from you because of your lack to be a mom read the case files if you cant remember correctly. Dont take this message as a threat take it as a promise that I will do everything in my power to make sure Alora never has contact with you ever again."

and it continues.......
    • you know nothing. you were a kid and she will be home soon enough. god bless you too
    • aloura will always be my daughter, always be my baby. Cps is corrupted and it will come to light in the most intense of ways.
    • do some research fightcps.com
    • I still have joint custody of Abra, funny huh? if i was such a bad mom why did they not take her way too? Because Abra couldnt produce money for the system. Aloura was an easy target, with sami willing to adopt. Another bonus earning in the social workers pocket
    • you got a lot to learn
    • Aloura knows where she belongs and knows the love, we have a bond no one can ever touch. through lies or fabrications. She knows that in her heart and in the end it will all come to par with a testimony so strong, the system will change.
    • you were 6, you had a mom that hated me and was extremely jealous. She is my blood and will never have a touch like that of her mommy. The smell. DO you know what she said to me at our last visit, "mommy i dont like the way i smell now that i live with sami, i want to smell how i you smell, when i lived with you" Deeper then you can begin to comprehend.
  • Amber Celeste Stanley
    • court documents merely state what lies need to be told to make the system look like they have reason. Have you ever seen the police report from the day i called the cops on the man that hurt aloura? do you know anything other then lies in falsified documents and ur mother words? It goes beyond what you have been told and seen. way deeper
  • Amber Celeste Stanley
    • oh one last thing, your mom should have stayed the heck away. She had no business coming near my daughter ever.@@@ Who decides they are going to step in and change 7 yr olds name? the truth will prevail and all the glory to god the day it does.
  • Alysa Maire Bradley
    • Again contact my family in any way and I will file a report against you to protect my family. You need to stay clear away from us.

Letter From A Theif

For a Foster Parent to have so much opinion about a parent of whose child they are "raising" is scary to me.   There is an obvious conflict of interest in her words and intentions.

This letter was sent to my friend as a response to him reaching out to her on face book.  It ends abruptly.  If you know the law, you see the obvious lies.  If you are not familiar with the proceedings of the system you can feel the wrong. I will be pointing out the lies and details of this letter on my you tube video.  Please follow me and my you tube channel.

"I'm not sure who you are but the courts gave Amber 2 1/2 years to get it together & in that time she did not even 1 thing on her plan & never even once would drug test for them & at the final hearing she walked out. The courts wanted to give her only 12 months & I asked for them to give her more time because I was sure she would do the right thing, but I wrong. I have never said an ugly word to my daughter about Amber just that she made poor Choices, to tear apart the woman she came from would only hurt my daughter more. I set it up with social services that when she turns 18 she will have full access to all info regarding Amber & Amber has been instructed by them to give them updates about that time. But at this time my daughter remembers all by her self what happened & can't understand why Amber won't respect her enough to stop trying to force her way back in to her life when she could have never lost her if she would have made better choices. The last time Amber tried to contact Alora she nearly killed herself & spent almost 2 weeks in a mental hospital. My daughter is surrounded by a loving church, youth group, friends, & family who respect her wishes as well as counselors & doctors. If you are truly a friend to Amber please tell her that Alora finding out she had another sister only sent her into a depression wandering why Amber supposedly has it together enough to raise that one but couldn't get it together enough for her. Please respect my daughters privacy & do not contact me again. As a Christian you should understand that a loving God can heal all & if Amber is truly changed she should be the first one to try to guard Alora from pain & not just think of her own wants, but put Alora first. & when the time comes that Alora is ready to contact Amber her attacking me & all the years I've spent with her protecting her, loving her, & getting her all the professional help she needs will only make Alora angry & cause to not want a relationship with"

Remember this is the first communication I have had what so ever since the state decided to release her from orangewood into samis cre.  I had no clue that this woman was even attempting to gain custody of aloura until the day i went to visit her and she had already been released to samis care.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

That lady is deranged here is what she replied to me
I'm not sure who you are but the courts gave Amber 2 1/2 years to get it together & in that time she did not even 1 thing on her plan & never even once would drug test for them & at the final hearing she walked out. The courts wanted to give her only 12 months & I asked for them to give her more time because I was sure she would do the right thing, but I wrong. I have never said an ugly word to my daughter about Amber just that she made poor Choices, to tear apart the woman she came from would only hurt my daughter more. I set it up with social services that when she turns 18 she will have full access to all info regarding Amber & Amber has been instructed by them to give them updates about that time. But at this time my daughter remembers all by her self what happened & can't understand why Amber won't respect her enough to stop trying to force her way back in to her life when she could have never lost her if she would have made better choices. The last time Amber tried to contact Alora she nearly killed herself & spent almost 2 weeks in a mental hospital. My daughter is surrounded by a loving church, youth group, friends, & family who respect her wishes as well as counselors & doctors. If you are truly a friend to Amber please tell her that Alora finding out she had another sister only sent her into a depression wandering why Amber supposedly has it together enough to raise that one but couldn't get it together enough for her. Please respect my daughters privacy & do not contact me again. As a Christian you should understand that a loving God can heal all & if Amber is truly changed she should be the first one to try to guard Alora from pain & not just think of her own wants, but put Alora first. & when the time comes that Alora is ready to contact Amber her attacking me & all the years I've spent with her protecting her, loving her, & getting her all the professional help she needs will only m